Flexin’ in her Complexion: Bullied girl a messenger of hope
Flexin’ in her Complexion: Bullied girl a messenger of hope In this Dec. 19, 2018 photo, social media personality Kheris Rogers poses for a portrait in Los Angeles. Rogers launched her own fashion line with T-shirts sporting, "Flexin' in My Complexion," along with backpacks reading "The Miseducation of Melanin" and other apparel and accessories. (Rebecca Cabage/Invision/AP)
Flexin’ in her Complexion: Bullied girl a messenger of hope
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Kheris Rogers was in the first grade in a predominantly white private school. It was in Los Angeles. She felt the bite of racism among her peers when she was being bullied because of her dark skin. She tearfully kept it to herself. Eventually, she turned to her older sister, Taylor Pollard. She switched to a more diverse school, there, colorism among fellow African-American students surprised and confused her.

Her young sister's self-esteem was bruised. Then Taylor inadvertently launched Kheris to social media fame in 2017 when she posted a photo of the girl on Twitter. She was dressed up for a fashion show. She used their beloved grandmother's down-home words for a hashtag: "Flexininhercomplexion."

Soon, Kheris had her own Twitter and Instagram accounts (@KherisPoppin) and was posting photo shoots of herself that she and Taylor created. Her own fashion line followed, with T-shirts sporting her tagline, "Flexin' in My Complexion." Then came backpacks reading "The Miseducation of Melanin" and other apparel and accessories.

Lupita Nyong'o posted a photo of herself wearing a black version of the shirt with bright yellow letters in support of Kheris. Whoopi Goldberg sported one while attending the Rodarte show at New York Fashion Week in September. Alicia Keys lauded her black girl magic.

While the words of her tormenters no longer sting, they haven't been forgotten. The behavior wasn't restricted to children, either.

"The kids would always call me names," Kheris, now 12, told The Associated Press in an interview. "They would always tease me for my dark-skin complexion. They used to call me dead roach and say I've been in the oven too long. When I really knew I was being bullied because of my color was when my teacher handed me a black crayon instead of a brown crayon to draw our portraits for parent conferences."

Taylor, who at 24 is now Kheris' manager, suspected something was amiss and Kheris finally told her family.

"I had no friends. I was only invited to one of the birthday parties that they had. Everybody else was invited and I wasn't," Kheris recalled.

Now in middle school, things are more than just a little looking up.

Kheris was chosen as one of Teen Vogue's "21 Under 21" inspiring girls and femmes of 2018 and attended the magazine's teen summit. She was picked by LeBron James as one of 16 people to help mark his 16th shoe release with Nike, modeling in ads for the company. She's been featured in a spread in Essence magazine and walked the runway of "America's Next Top Model" after Tyra Banks learned of her plight.

She has shown her own line in Harlem during New York Fashion Week, and she hasn't hit the eighth grade yet.

Julee Wilson, fashion and beauty director for Essence magazine, called support for Kheris "both an honor and responsibility."

She added: "To stand in the face of society's narrow beauty standards isn't an easy task, and she's doing it with an incredible amount of grace. We can't wait to see how Kheris pushes the 'Flexin' in My Complexion movement forward in the future. There's no doubt in our minds that she'll continue to remind the world that Black is incredibly beautiful."

Mom Erika Pollard, a social worker, said Kheris travels the country speaking at conferences about empowerment.

"As a parent, of course, you know, it was heartbreaking, but it made us stronger," she said of the rough years. "It pulled us together as a family because it's something that we had to conquer together. Now she's making a positive difference within her community, which I'm so proud of at such a young age."

Kheris said she now considers her life a mission.

"Flexin' in My Complexion isn't just about me," she said. "It's about every brown, dark, freckled, fair-skinned person who wants to tell the world, 'I am more than just the color of skin.'"

She hopes to spread her message across the world.

"I want to be a spokesperson for racism and colorism (issues)," she said.

Kheris now has lots of friends as a seventh-grader and knows exactly how to handle bullies: "Back off because I'm flexin' in my complexion and it doesn't matter what you think about me. It matters what I think about myself."

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If you created a slogan for an anti-bullying message, what would it be and why?
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  • la'damionh-orv
    3/22/2019 - 02:24 p.m.

    it would have to be a really good lesson to people

  • DylanL-dec
    3/25/2019 - 10:58 a.m.

    My slogan would be "Bullies are losers". They are losers.

  • SummerS-dec
    3/31/2019 - 11:01 a.m.

    If I created a slogan for an anti-bullying message it would be, "If you got a problem with the way I look or act, then stay away from me." It would be that message because if you don't like the way I am then leave me alone. Because bullies are so judgemental and rude, I'd rather stay back from them.

  • AthenaY-dec
    5/23/2019 - 08:21 a.m.

    I would create the word be so happy and don't be that bullie. That would be my slogan for bullies.

  • MiracleW-bad3
    10/04/2019 - 11:07 a.m.

    Why would you want to bully anyone don’t matter what color or even how you are bullying them because we are the same just some got lighter skin then us so you shouldn’t bully anyone because you never no what they going thru at home but if I create a slogan it would be “everyone stop the bullies tell on them”

  • SaMeM-bad
    10/04/2019 - 11:11 a.m.

    Stop wasting ur breath by bulling me and wasting your strength its no use..

  • ZinM-bad1
    10/04/2019 - 11:11 a.m.

    My slogan for bullies i think they are loser.

  • NashaiJ-bad1
    10/04/2019 - 11:13 a.m.

    If i was too create a slogan for anti-bullying it would say
    Step in shoes why because people get bullied and people who did the bullying need to step in there shoes and feel how there going and try to change what’s going on.

  • MaMetS-bad
    10/04/2019 - 11:13 a.m.

    My slogan would be “Don’t treat people how you don’t want to be treated because your only hurting yourself”.

  • OhMae-bad
    10/04/2019 - 11:14 a.m.

    If I created a slogan for an anti-bullying message it would be “walk away” because if you don’t like me then walk away why stand in my way when I got better things to do then you standing in the way of my life.

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