How to make an authentic Civil War valentine Esther Howland popularized and mass-produced Valentine’s Day cards like this one, using lace and colorful paper. (Courtesy American Antiquarian Society)
How to make an authentic Civil War valentine

The history of Valentine cards in North America owes a lot to Esther Howland. She popularized the cards when they were needed most. She made them popular during the Civil War.

Valentines were especially important during the Civil War. Loved ones were separated. They were many miles apart and feared they would never see each other again. That's according to Joan Itaska. She is a novelist who writes a long-running Civil War history blog.

Howland turned DIY cards into an industry and is sometimes called “The Mother of the Valentine.” Follow her advice to make your own sweet note.  

1. Prepare to do it yourself (or enlist some friends).

During the Civil War, printing technology was more simple. It did not have the sophistication it does today. Making a really beautiful valentine at a price most people could afford meant doing it by hand back then.

“Beautiful and elaborate European Valentines were available in mid-nineteenth century America. But their cost and rarity limited their market to a wealthy elite,” writes the Library of Congress’s Mary Champagne. Card-makers in New York made lithographed Valentines. But they “could hardly compare to the handcrafted valentines Esther Howland made famous.”

Howland began selling valentines that looked like traditional handmade cards. But hers were made using an all-woman assembly line in her home, Itska writes. 

2. Gather up colored paper, lace, ribbon, and maybe some old magazines.

Howland’s cards were made collage style using layers and layers of pasted-together objects. She often used brightly colored scraps of paper underneath light-colored lace. This gave it the benefit of negative space.

Don’t be afraid to put on a lot of layers. A lot. If you’re thinking this could make the card too thick, try the “lift-up” Valentine. It’s another innovation Howland is credited with. These cards were meant to be sort of three-dimensional, because of the number of layers they had. They were “particularly effective when placed in an ornamental box made specifically to display these special valentines,” Champagne writes.

3. Don’t write anything on the outside.

Howland is known for a number of innovations in the valentine industry. There was one that shows that she really knew her market. It was the fact that her cards didn’t come with a motto or verse on the outside.

After all, as she knew, your love is unique. It won’t always fit with a premade card. “It is frequently the case that a valentine is found to suit, but the verse or sentiment is not right,” she stated.

As a solution, Howland’s valentines had a verse on the inside. After incorporating as The New England Valentine Co. in In 1879, her company started publishing a Valentine Verse Book. It had 131 verses inside it printed in multiple colors. “A verse could be chosen from the book, cut out and pasted over the original verse inside the card,” writes Champagne.

Howland turned her card-making business into an empire that came to cater to other holidays. She sold her business four decades later to her main competitor.

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Why did people make their Valentine's Day cards by hand during the Civil War?
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  • Ellad-bru1
    2/20/2018 - 12:59 p.m.

    People during World War 2 made valentines. One reason being is they needed a it of extra love in there life to wash away all of the sadness and depression in there lives. Also they could be sending this to see if they will get a letter back from the war from there loved ones serving. Valentines is about showing your love and appreciation for people in your life. People shared there love with WWll veterans.

  • kinniel-orv
    2/21/2018 - 11:36 a.m.

    I'm used to buying any type of card from walgreens, I wouldn't like to make a card by hand.

  • holdenj-orv
    2/27/2018 - 11:23 a.m.

    The Only Valentine's day cards (or any Holiday card in fact) i like are the "First Drafts" ones from "The Late show with Stephen Colbert"

  • averym-orv
    2/28/2018 - 11:34 a.m.

    Now a days, cards are just printed with little to no thought. I would like receiving a personal homemade card.

  • calliy-orv
    3/06/2018 - 02:03 p.m.

    I think its cool how they did this in remembrance f the civil war and you could give this valentine to like someone that was in the civil war if they made it because they went thew a lot.

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