See tiny tuxes but no puppy love at doggy weddings Blue Joie is held by his owner Ingrid Robinson of New York, as they and others wait for the start of the most expensive wedding for pets in New York. At left, Dee Dee and Clifford are held by their owner Valerie Diker (AP photos)
See tiny tuxes but no puppy love at doggy weddings
Lexile

When pet owners dress up their dogs in miniature white dresses and tiny tuxes, some believe the barks that signal "I do" reveal true puppy love.

These animal lovers say their pooches can feel real longing for other pets, but experts aren't so sure. Most people agree a wedding is just for fun or charity when the groom is drooling and the bride's gown needs tailoring for her tail.

After all, "you may now lick the bride" doesn't have quite the same ring to it.

The doggy nuptials are gaining attention as Valentine's Day approaches and people find new and unique ways to pamper their pets.

"Pet marriage or weddings are for people," said Dr. Bonnie Beaver, executive director of the American College of Veterinary Behaviorists and a professor at Texas A&M University's College of Veterinary Medicine.

Owners host weddings because it makes them feel good, she said, though most get planned for dogs instead of cats. People can't know what dogs are thinking, but studies have shown they do experience emotion, Beaver said.

"Fear is a classic example," she said. "But we don't know if they experience it as you or I would."

Others say it's all about the animals, even if that means the first dance is a walk around a patch of grass instead a waltz.

"The weddings are for the dogs," said Adina Slotsky, the owner and CEO of Hollywood Pet Parties. Though birthday parties, dubbed "barkdays," are much more popular, she said.

When owners plan doggy nuptials, aka "puptials," they can go all out. There are groomsmen and bridesmaids of every breed, and even some people who get down on all fours. The animal weddings come with flowers, music and a reception with food that both people and pooches can enjoy, ranging from apple slices to baby back ribs with spinach.

All pet weddings move quickly because of animals short attention spans. With all the distractions, dogs spend lots of time on leashes.

A simple wedding costs about $300, Slotsky said. But it can easily grow to thousands of dollars if guests are plentiful, the venue is top-notch, the food is extravagant, a band plays and a florist creates centerpieces, she said.

The most lavish pet wedding took place in New York in 2012 when Baby Hope Diamond, a fluffy white Coton de Tulear, married a poodle named Chilly Pasternak as a charity fundraiser.

It was a ceremony complete with limos, a $6,000 designer dress, a sushi chef, mixologist to create "puptails," florist, orchestra, wedding planner and parking valets. Ellen DeGeneres' pet food company furnished a dog food buffet.

The event raised $158,187.26 for the Humane Society of New York and earned a place in Guinness World Records for the most expensive pet wedding. Everything was donated, and guests spent up to $10,000 for a table of 10.

One thing pet owners don't have to worry about is divorce. But because animals have unique personalities just like people, there is no guarantee two animals will get along, Beaver said.

No studies show pets like or love one another, but "it is very common for two or more individual animals to spend a great amount of time together and show signs of stress if separated," she said.

But some stick by the belief that dogs love, including Carol Bryant, co-founder of Wigglebutt Warriors, the fundraising division of dog health website Fidose of Reality.

"I do believe that dogs can love and be in love with each other," said Bryant, whose cocker spaniel married another dog for a company fundraiser.

Critical thinking challenge: "Pet marriage or weddings are for people. What does Dr. Bonnie Beaver mean by this statement?

Assigned 19 times


COMMENTS (26)
  • MyaH1
    2/11/2015 - 08:52 a.m.

    I absolutely love it when pet owners dress up their dogs. When i grow i I'm gonna buy me a baby puppy and dress him or her up :)

  • IsaiahA1
    2/11/2015 - 08:52 a.m.

    Dog weddings exist for pet owners that are lonely and have nothing to do. They do this to stay connected to friends and family. the wedding is a waste of time and money.

  • paintballer6
    2/11/2015 - 10:11 a.m.

    I believe, that animals believe in a longing love connection and will not wait for the right one they just get to business and move on.

  • jacobm-Che
    2/11/2015 - 01:45 p.m.

    this is so very cute but i wouldn't got one for my dog sure there cute an all but my dog would probable eat it but still cute the dog on the front looks very sad like it didn't want to be there i would have my dog at a wedding if she live that long

  • brianat-Lam
    2/11/2015 - 05:34 p.m.

    I'm not so sure I agree with the dog wedding because I really don't think that dog weddings are necessary. Dogs can love, but I don't think that they should really get married.

  • alexher-Lam
    2/11/2015 - 05:39 p.m.

    People don't need to spend that much money just for a wedding for dogs. The idea of a dog wedding is great, but too much money is wasted on a wedding for animals. Imagine all the things we can buy without wasting money on a wedding for dogs.

  • codyh-Man
    2/12/2015 - 10:27 a.m.

    I think she meant why would you host a wedding for dogs and whats next cat getting married. I'm not try to be negative at all just my opinion.

  • TehyaWhite-Ste
    2/12/2015 - 01:06 p.m.

    Why does this even exist? I know people are very sensitive about their pets and they're like their pets, but this is about ridiculous. Pets don't know that they're married, like come on.

  • NashMcComsey-Ste
    2/12/2015 - 01:09 p.m.

    I have always thought that the business of dressing up animals was a strange one. But, i suppose, if you have the money, it can be done.

  • tyrekb-Che
    2/12/2015 - 01:47 p.m.

    I think they look cool on the dogs but the thing about is the dog going to wear it. Some dogs might wear it and some dogs might tear it off but in my opinion they look cool.

Take the Quiz Leave a comment
ADVERTISEMENT