How to make an authentic Civil War valentine
How to make an authentic Civil War valentine Esther Howland popularized and mass-produced Valentine’s Day cards like this one, using lace and colorful paper. (Courtesy American Antiquarian Society)
How to make an authentic Civil War valentine
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The history of Valentine cards in North America owes a lot to Esther Howland, who popularized the cards just when they were needed most: during the Civil War.

Valentines were especially important during the Civil War when loved ones were separated not only by miles but by the uneasiness they would never see each other again, writes novelist Joan Itaska in her long-running Civil War history blog.

Howland turned DIY cards into an industry, so much so, that now she is sometimes called “The Mother of the Valentine.” Follow her recommendations to make your own amiable note.  

1. Prepare to do it yourself (or enlist some friends).

At a time before printing technology had the sophistication it does today, making a really beautiful, elaborate valentine at an inexpensive price most people could afford meant doing it by hand.

“Beautiful and elaborate European Valentines were available in mid-nineteenth century America, but their cost and rarity limited their market to a wealthy elite,” writes the Library of Congress’s Mary Champagne, and card-makers in New York made lithographed Valentines, but they “could hardly compare to the handcrafted valentines Esther Howland made famous.”

Howland began selling valentines that looked like traditional handmade cards, but hers were made using an all-woman assembly line in her home, Itska writes. 

2. Gather up colored paper, lace, ribbon, and maybe some old magazines.

Howland’s cards were made collage style: layers and layers of pasted-together objects that often had brightly colored scraps of paper underneath light-colored lace to get the benefit of negative space.

Don’t be afraid to put on a lot of layers - a lot. If you’re thinking this could make the card too thick, consider the “lift-up” Valentine card, another innovation Howland is credited with, the cards were meant to be sort of three-dimensional, because of the number of layers they had, and were “particularly effective when placed in an ornamental box made specifically to display these special valentines,” Champagne writes.

3. Don’t write anything on the outside.

Howland is known for a number of innovations in the valentine industry, but maybe the one that shows that she really knew her market was the fact that her cards didn’t come with a motto or verse on the outside.

After all, as she knew, your love is unique and won’t always fit with a premade card. “It is frequently the case that a valentine is found to suit, but the verse or sentiment is not right,” she stated.

As a solution, Howland’s valentines had a verse on the inside and in 1879, after incorporating as The New England Valentine Co., her company started publishing a Valentine Verse Book that had 131 verses inside it printed in multiple colors. “A verse could be chosen from the book, cut out and pasted over the original verse inside the card,” writes Champagne.

Howland turned her card-making business into an empire that came to cater to other holidays as well, ultimately selling her business four decades later to her main competitor.

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Why did people make their Valentine's Day cards by hand during the Civil War?
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  • Chey-dec
    3/01/2018 - 02:04 p.m.

    People hand made their Valentine's Day cards because it was easier than having then shipped from Europe and it was more sentimental.

  • ArwenR-dec
    3/15/2018 - 01:49 p.m.

    They didn't have machines or anything to do it for them. Plus i think it means more being hand made.

  • MadisonW-dec
    3/23/2018 - 07:57 a.m.

    Its really cool that sent valentines during the war.

  • IsabellaK-pla
    2/12/2019 - 08:01 p.m.

    This article talks of how one might make original valentines rather than buying the factory made, commercial ones common today. Through these instructions we are taught of the first valentines created during the civil war. While these were actually crafted and sold, they were hand made and each one was quite unique. Esther Howland, an engaged citizen, saw that people were missing their loved ones as they were spread throughout the US fighting. She stepped up to help by making the people in her community hand made decorative valentines to allow them to express their feelings to their far away loved ones that were risking their lives.

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